How do our memories shape who we are? How does the past continue to live within us, influencing our choices, dreams, and sense of self?We’ll approach these questions through metaphors, psychology, and literature — reflecting on the power of remembering and the beauty of time passing.

November Meeting

During this meeting, we shared our experiences and engaged in a thoughtful discussion about the book

using the materiels and questions outlined below:

• Have you ever met someone who really embodied the idea of cultural openness or courage? What did they do that impressed you?
• Do you ever romanticise the past – an ex, a city, a “golden period” – even though you know it wasn’t that perfect? What does that do for you in the present?
• Can you think of a formative experience that really helped shape your identity? If that event hadn’t happened, in what way might you be different now?
• Are there memories you return to when you need to find solace in memory – almost like an emotional safe place? What kind of memories work like that for you?
• Do you think empathy is mostly an inborn trait, or can it be trained like a muscle? What helps you grow your own empathy?
• Have you ever had to bear witness to cruelty – towards people or animals – and felt unsure when or how to intervene? What did you end up doing?
• In a world where we constantly hear about atrocities (cruel acts), do you ever feel empathy fatigue – like you can’t take in any more suffering? How do you deal with that?